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EMDR Therapy for Children: Healing Young Minds and Hearts

EMDR is a powerful form of therapy that can help children overcome the lasting effects of trauma and disturbing life events.

What is EMDR Therapy?

EMDR therapy is an effective mind-body therapy that allows children to process and heal from painful memories and emotions. By tailoring EMDR to a child’s developmental level, EMDR therapy allows children to process distressing events safely and effectively.   

Proven Effective for Overcoming Trauma

Preliminary research shows EMDR therapy is just as effective as cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) in reducing PTSD, anxiety symptoms, and depression. Even more promising, EMDR often achieves these results in a shorter time compared to other treatment methods.

How EMDR Helps Children Heal

EMDR works efficiently by directly targeting the root cause of the traumatic symptoms. The unique bilateral movement helps the brain reprocess stuck memories and emotions in a natural, healing way. Under the guidance of a trained EMDR-Sand Tray Specialist, EMDR helps to gently facilitate the mind's natural ability to adapt and create new, positive neural pathways. Clients don't have to re-live their trauma but can finally let go of its grip. 

EMDR allows children to:

  • Process traumatic memories safely 

  • Let go of disturbing thoughts and feelings

  • Develop healthy coping strategies

  • Build skills for better emotional regulation

  • Gain a stronger sense of self-esteem

The Effects of Trauma on Children

Childhood should be a time of wonder, play, and feeling secure. However, for many children, traumatic events like abuse, accidents, violence, or loss can leave deep psychological scars. 

Unresolved trauma can lead to problems such as:

  • Anxiety and fear

  • Anger issues

  • Nightmares and sleep problems 

  • Difficulty concentrating

  • Physical symptoms like headaches or stomachaches

  • Acting out in problematic ways

When is EMDR Recommended for Children?

EMDR can help children who have experienced:

  • Physical, emotional, or sexual abuse

  • Neglect

  • Violence in the home or community

  • Bullying or peer victimization

  • Accidents, injuries or medical trauma

  • Traumatic grief and loss

  • Divorce or parental separation

  • Natural disasters

  • Other disturbing life events

Compassionate, Child-Centered EMDR to Overcome Trauma

EMDR therapy must be tailored to meet kids where they are developmentally. Younger children especially may struggle to directly discuss, or make sense of their traumatic experiences verbally. An EMDR approach blended with sand tray therapy,  play therapy, and other expressive activities allows children to process the trauma in an indirect, emotionally safe manner that matches their cognitive abilities and shorter attention spans. Modifying EMDR to be more child-friendly allows this evidence-based therapy to effectively treat trauma in a way kids can understand and embrace.

Your Child Deserves to Thrive

No child should have to carry the burden of trauma into adulthood. EMDR therapy can help your child process difficult experiences so they can get back to just being a kid - happy, carefree, and able to reach their full potential. I will guide your child on a journey of self-discovery and renewal, allowing their natural resilience to shine through once more.

Contact me today to learn more about how EMDR therapy can help your child heal and find joy again.

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